HOW TO CONTROL YOUR TEMPER

Yes, there are always those moments when you feel like slaughtering someone or yelling until you've lost your voice for weeks... but you have to take control over yourself, so here are some tips!

STEPS: 1. Realize that things can be handled well at all times; it's just a matter of what kind of attitude you put into it.Take deep breaths. 2. Be considerate of others, and ultimately, yourself. The way you react will ultimately affect your surroundings. If you have to rebuke someone for doing something wrong, you can always do it calmly, in a private place. This method is always better for everyone in the long run. 3. Realize that no one likes to be around people who get angry easily, and act abusive. The only way you can change the situation is by starting with yourself. 4. Get away from situations where your anger might get the better of you, such as when someone is teasing you. Ignore the other person and walk away. If you must, do this a few times until the person gets the hint that you will not tolerate it. It's okay to use your words or body language to tell somebody you will not tolerate how they are treating you, as long as you respond to them in a calm and matter of fact manner, without being overtly hurtful or trying to embarrass them as they have you. It's never okay to hit somebody for making fun. 5. Say, "peace" to someone who says something that is ignorant, and then walk away. 6. If you are angry and you are standing, sit down, if you are sitting then lie down. 7. Remember that the reward for patience is happiness. 8. Remember, 5 seconds stand between you and logic, count to 5, and remember that logic always beats anger.

TIPS: 1. When you feel like you are about to blow up, count 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 and then decide how you will act. This doctor-recommended method has definitely helped, I can vouch for that. 2. When you are angry then your heart beats faster, you feel uneasy and you want to express it somehow. Stay calm and take deep breaths, close your eyes for a while and you will find that the situation is under your control and slowly you will master your anger.

WARNING: Although it may seem hard in the beginning, you will get it as long as you put yourself into it. No one wakes up one day as a changed person, and you can't learn a new skill in one day... and yes, learning to control your temper is definitely a skill because not everyone can do it, and it's a great thing to master, good for you and for others.